Thursday, July 10, 2014

Almost 30

It irks me when I hear people complain about getting a year older. Would you prefer the alternative?? No. I’ve lost quite a few people in my life who went way too early, so I appreciate the years I am given. Yes, I’ll be out of my twenties soon but I’m sure the thirties will hold many new, just as exciting experiences.


So, don’t whine to me if you’re getting older. It’s a blessing. Be happy and grateful!


Oh, and buy me a birthday present. (August 2 is in 22 days… you have time) :)

Friday, May 30, 2014

Where you go, I will go.

Wow. A lot has happened since May 7th.

Two days after, I got engaged to the love of my life. Yep - Paul asked me to marry him and I couldn't be happier! Madi is excited as well and we can't wait to tell Addison.

A few days after he proposed, I was offered a job in Norfolk, VA. Talk about good timing!! I accepted and will start this coming Monday. I'm very excited about the new job and about Paul and I no longer having to do this long distance thing. It is not easy!! We will certainly not take our time together for granted after spending a year apart!

Madi is coping well with the move. She is five years old so to her it's about how she will get to spend more time with "the dogs," as she calls them (Jeff & Pam's dogs). I'm thankful that I found a job before she starts school in the fall - this way, she can start school in VA and we won't have to worry about that transition.

Everything is truly falling into place! It's amazing what a little faith and prayer can do.

I will try to blog more now that we will have many new adventures in VA!


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

The 'Ol Rivalry

I guess when I say I'm not going to post anymore it's actually code for I'm going to post all the time now.

It's no secret that in the South we take our football rivalries seriously. I mean as serious as Canadians take their hockey.

Clemson vs Carolina is the rivalry in my state. My dad was a die-hard Carolina fan. My mom is a Carolina fan by default (she went there) and I have never really payed much attention to football.

Since Paul and Morgan went to Clemson, I've been leaning in that direction. Madi has pretty much fallen in that direction. :) So yesterday when I saw a Clemson cheerleader outfit for $4.50, I snatched it up!

She wore it to school today - oh so proudly! (Her teachers are both Clemson fans. And I must point out that it's interesting that I know that. Thinking about Anchorage - I would have had no clue what sports team people liked. Football is just that big of a deal around here.)

Well, I knew there would be some talk - and she did too - about who does and doesn't like her outfit. She told me right away that her friend BJ would love it and that Patrick would not. I told her just to take it with a grain of salt basically. But of course, it's not that easy, especially since she's five years old!

She told me tonight that one of her good friends would not stand next to her all day today (aka wouldn't play with her), because of her Clemson outfit. Madi even said "she finally let me stand behind her in car line." This just made me so sad! I know it's just kids being kids, but to what degree? Some parents put so much emphasis on school teams being better or worse, that their young children pick up on it and relate that to others. 

I am not saying we shouldn't be passionate about sports, but I just want parents to be aware that how we act about that Carolina fan next to us is going to be mocked by our children. Breaking that orange crayon (ahem, Marty! haha, kidding!) or refusing to wear garnet may be a bit overboard … at least in front of your kids.

Just some food for thought when I can't make my mind turn off.

Go Tigers! ;)

Monday, May 5, 2014

Nights like tonight.

Nights like tonight make crying in the bathroom completely worth the pain.

Madi & I were both feeling lethargic and just not all that well this evening. As soon as we got home, I fixed her dinner and let her eat it in my bed while we watched a Barbie Mermaid movie. After she ate, we played Disney Guess Who and then she spent some time alone in her room while I ate dinner. Later, she joined me on the couch to watch Love It or List It (yes, the HGTV show!) and then I cuddled in her bed with her to put her to sleep.

She cried when I didn't let her sleep in my room but it was such an innocent, sweet cry. She just wanted her mama. I held her close and just assured her I'd be here. I told her how much I love her. That is the most important thing, I've found, to do - tell your children you love them all the time. Even if you think they know - say it anyway.

Those moments of feeling her chest go up and down on mine are what motherhood feels like. She makes my life so much more and I thank God for her every night.

Saturday, May 3, 2014

No one told me...

When I decided to have children, no one told me there would be times that I would lock myself in the bathroom and cry.

I've done that today. Quite a bit today actually. This whole single parent thing is TOUGH. Any one who has the option to share this task of raising a kid should totally succumb to that. 

I'm used to having my mom around to help me but she's been gone all weekend. I really can't imagine how moms with truly no one else to help handle it. And with more than one kid? Oh my gosh I'd just die. 

Of course there are plenty of good times with M but days like today make me get on my knees and pray. I prayed for patience. I prayed to be a better mother. I mean good moms don't have kids who sass them or pull on their legs and bang on their bedroom door even though mommy said 5 times that MOMMY needs a time out, right?? Right?

So. Today is a struggle. It's a struggle that I don't have someone to pass the parenting off to so that I can cool down. It's a struggle that I don't always know exactly what to do in these situations. It's a struggle that I'm fuming mad but at the same time I'm worried that my child is going to bed with an empty stomach.

First and foremost, I'm her mother. Good days and bad days, I love her to the moon and back and would do ANYTHING on this earth to protect her. But right now, she has to hurt in order to learn a lesson and I have to hurt because I'm teaching her a lesson.

Tomorrow is another day. Tomorrow may have tears and it may not. But it will have love because we always forgive each other…after all, I'm the meanest mom in the world remember?

Wednesday, April 23, 2014


This is going to be my last blog post on A Babbling Brunette...most likely.

The truth is I can’t be myself on here anymore. There are people who read my blog that I’d rather didn’t know about my life. I do have a private blog and I thought having both a private one and a public one would fix my concerns but it hasn’t.

I want to be able to share things about my life on this public blog without feeling judged or raked through with a fine-tooth comb. The private blog is okay but it’s more like a journal that select people can read. I’d rather just journal! The point of a blog, to me, is for thoughts, comments, opinions to be communicated amongst the blogger and her community of online friends. This has been tainted with all of the changes in my life.

So, it’s been real and I really have had fun “meeting” all of you! Feel free to follow me on Instagram or twitter – babblinbrunett. You may also email me if you want to keep in touch – bamorris4ATgmailDOTcom.


Leaving you with the real me - goofy and silly! :)

Sunday, April 13, 2014

I don't like my D!

I've never been one to have a hobby. Sure, I blog but that's extremely inconsistent. I read but I don't consider that a hobby.

When I saw Stefanie, a sweet Southern belle/entrepreneur with whom I went to high school, post information about an upcoming calligraphy class, I gasped. No exaggeration. I've always wanted to learn calligraphy. I have good hand writing (I learned today that does not matter in the slightest when it comes to being a good calligrapher) so I just always thought it would something I could master. So, I signed up for her class!

I just got finished with my first ever calligraphy class - Cupcakes & Calligraphy - as it was so cleverly named. I am hooked! Stefanie went over the details of the art form including the technical aspects and the historical info. Then she took us step by step through some key strokes & the alphabet. Now I just need to practice, practice, and practice!

I don't think I'm a lost cause. It was really fun, relaxing even, and I think with said practice - I can do this!

I didn't think to take pictures until the end but Stefanie had a beautiful table ready for us, complete with place cards and cupcakes! 


In class practice! 

See my name down there, I did that! Not bad for my first try.

Oy. These letters need lots of work.

I'm so glad I took this class. It is truly something I think I will love perfecting! And look out - your Christmas present will probably be something calligraphed… 

Check out Stefanie's company, Stroman Studios, and hit her up for your calligraphy needs!! 

Also, follow me on instagram to track my progress (hopefully, there will be some…) - babblinbrunett

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